I had heard about his playroom during our first conversation. Not typical first conversation material, but either was me telling him that I have been a submissive.
When the the thought of dating again came up, I asked Sir "How do you know that someone has the same needs that you have?". He said "you say, I'm kind of a sub, are you kind of a Dom?" So that's pretty much what I did.
We spoke for hours on end all week leading up to our first meeting. We agreed that he would show me the playroom but we would not play in there because that room requires a lot of trust and we barely know each other. That sounded reasonable.
I had a really craptastic day on Friday. The day of our date. Which wasn't technically a date, because he has an issue with that word. But two friends getting together for an adult beverage and conversation, so when the restaurant was closing, he invited me over to his place around the corner. I accepted so I could see the room.
He gave me the tour of the house. I was a little tipsy from the tequila. We got to the playroom at the end of the hallway. He turned the overhead light on all the way. The room was bright. He proudly showed me all of the things he had built in there. There was something he calls the "spiderweb" its a series of leashes arranged so that there is full access to the bound persons body from any angle and all of the straps can be adjusted for any height or position. Its pretty cool looking.
On the wall is the St. Andrew's cross stands looming. It draws me to it. Instantly, I know that I want to try it out. Now just to convince him. I step up onto the base and lean back. "Please" He hesitates. I say "I am fully clothed" so he relents and binds my neck first to the giant X on the wall. The leather collar is tight around my throat. Its not so tight that it restricts my airway, but with the clip my head is not going anywhere.
First the right hand goes up to meet the writs binding and then the left. He tightens the strap on each one so that my arms are fully extended to the X.
I'm extremely aroused at the position I have manipulated him into putting me into. What I could not imagine at the time was how the next 3 hours was going to play out. The extreme pain to the extreme pleasure, to the level of control I had to the level of trust I gave.
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He bent me over the chair in the room but it was too tall so he took my leather covered wrists in his hand behind my back and guided me to his bedroom across the hallway. He pushed me face first down on his bed and took my pussy from behind. He fucked me hard with my face in the white fluffy down comforter. He lifted my up by the hips and threw me over onto my back. After a few minutes, he said "put your arms around my neck". I complied easily. My shackled wrists both align with the center of his neck as he hoists my entire body up and to the center of the bed. He cuddles me in his arms and caresses my skin. He runs his hands through my hair. "Fuck you" he says quietly. "I cant believe we have never met before". The conversation continues there in the dimly lit bedroom of this man that is my match in his fucked up beauty. I'm enthralled at the depth of his soul. He shares it freely, yet he is so guarded. His words chosen carefully. I ask him why he chooses to spend his time with married women and I am not surprised when his answer is the same as mine. "I don't want to get hurt, I'm protecting myself, and scared of commitment". So laying there in the dark, rubbing and holding each other, I promise him that I won't hurt him. Staring in to my eyes, he says he knows that I wont. I ask him if he came at all. He said he did not, and that he had a lot of control and that it isn't all about that with him. I understand that, however, I do not like leaving someone with out an orgasm, its my hang up. I share that with him, I roll him onto his back and he takes his semi-erect in his hand and starts stroking it. I'm kissing and biting his ears, neck and chest. I have his sack in my left hand, I am pulling his excess skin between my thumb and forefinger and twisting it until it pinches out of my clasp. I grab his balls and squeeze them harder than he anticipates and he yelps in pain. It makes me wet, knowing that i caused him the pain that he enjoys even if it was a little too hard. I put his cock in my mouth and drag my teeth gently up his shaft and nip at the head. I take it back down into my throat. I ask him how he wants to cum and he said from behind me. I roll over as he puts a new condom on and i hear it roll down. He says "You have been such a good little girl tonight" I said "thank you daddy". And the play continued from there with lots of little girl this and daddy that. It was super hot and felt totally natural with him. Once he came, he collapsed on top of my back. He was heavy on me, but I didn't want him to move an inch. I cant say how long he laid there but it felt great.
Once he moved, we laid there awhile longer relaxing in our easy conversation. He is definitely a dominant man. I will not submit to him, or anyone but my only Sir. I said "I really need to get home" and I got up naked and walked back across the hall into the brightly lit playroom and fetched my discarded clothes off the floor. We turned each others shirts right side out for each other and put them on and he walked me out to the car port. We hugged and agreed it was a great time.
I awoke this morning with bruises on both wrists, both shoulder blades, the center of my back, the top my my neck, all around my jawline, and my left ass cheek.
I got a text saying that I had "awakened the sleeping bear". He said that he felt so free last night and that he hadn't felt that way in a very long time. He called and asked when we could get together again soon. So Monday it is. He was giggling at my dominant personality fighting with my desire to submit. He said watching the dichotomy was amusing and hot. I saw the same thing in him. I have for sure met my sexual equal. That is scary as fuck and so fucking hot.
